Looking Back on 2017

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I really enjoy this time of year. It is time to look back and reflect on what has happened in the last 12 months. Often times people will consider what “happened to” them, but this year I encourage you to look at the last 12 months in a way that asks your brain what you were thinking along the way to create the results you see.
If you find yourself looking back at your year and wish it was different I encourage you to learn more about the tools to will show you how your thoughts create your results. If you continue to have the same thoughts going into the New Year you will create the same results. Instead of making resolutions, set goals and start asking yourself really fantastic questions on how you will get there. For example - if you are looking to drink less - ask yourself what ways you will feel amazing each morning you wake up knowing you honored the plan you made. Don’t ask yourself how you are going to possibly get through the night without that last drink. Your brain will find answers to the questions you ask so make sure you are asking the ones that will find the answers you need to accomplish your goal.
When we go about life thinking we are at the effect of it we lose control. This year I encourage you to decide what 2018 holds in store for you, and live on purpose. Make an impossible goal and then go after it. There will be failures and thats OK. It will be important to understand what you make any failure mean - you decide - is it a learning experience, is it a chance to continue down the path to find the next solution, or do you make it mean something more? This stuff is amazing and so are you - now go get it - blow your own mind!
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